make it six

i once wrote about the five pillars of adulthood. marriage. kids. job. car. mortgage. or something like that.

but now i'm ready to add a sixth item to that list: worry.

i worry all the time these days. i worry about a lot of things these days. hell, i worry about so many things these days that i can't even remember what it is i'm worried about half the time. but of all the things that i worry about, i worry about my kids the most. and money. and whether i'll even have enough money as my kids grow up. i worry about the vacations and the college tuition and the summer camps and the karate lessons and all the other things i want them to experience.