love is

it's amazing that two people ever manage to fall in love in the first place. just think about all of the things that can go wrong leading up to the moment where two people are finally ready to declare their love for one another. there can be immaturity. there can be confusion. there can be pride. there can be fear. there can be boredom. there can be jealousy. there can be ambition. there can be sensitivity. there can be betrayal. there can be priorities. there can be differences. there can be expectations. there can be skeletons. there can be drift. there can be growth. and of course, there can always be another. and yet, every day millions of north americans manage to fall in love. or so they believe.

"trying to make someone fall in love with you is about as pointless as trying to control who you fall in love with." - unknown

the best love song ever, in my not-so-humble opinion, that hasn't been removed from youtube due to copyright violations: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShN8UIk5-mw